As a schoolgirl, I liked the good-lookers. Later, I was drawn to humour, then to wit, then to attention. I kept chasing the thrill, convinced butterflies were the key. Over time, I learned those things were only fleeting.
When I met Dave, the chemistry was instant, and he checked all my superficial boxes. He also had qualities I didn’t even know to hope for: stability, patience and generosity. What began as the giddiness of first sparks grew into the gentle flame of a lasting love. He became my husband, the father of our children, and the person I depend on most.
Marriage taught me that the true measure of a man is how he cares for his family.
Dave not only provides financially for us, but builds a life rich with quality time together. He creates new memories with us, shows us the world, and brings his parents, brothers and their partners along so the joy is shared, not just kept. Life with him is like climbing a mountain together: steady, sometimes challenging, but always rising with trust, warmth and purpose. He makes sure no one is ever left behind.
I no longer chase butterflies. I found the man who is both my solid ground and the greatest adventure of my life.