Looking for a new job is a bit like searching for a new boyfriend. You start with an idea of what you want, read through job descriptions that catch your eye, and go on interviews hoping to find the right fit. It's a bit like dating—juggling different companies can be exhausting.
Like dating, companies can look promising from a distance, but after the interview, you realise it's not the right match. I'm eager for a new job, but I refuse to settle for just any position. After three interviews, I'm starting to appreciate my current job more. It's like being in a long-term relationship where occasional doubts make you wonder what else is out there. People leave relationships for various reasons, often because they're not ready to settle down and want to explore other options. However, playing the field isn't always as exciting as it seems. You might go on numerous dates in search of Mr Right, only to settle for Mr Right Now.
Knowing what you want can be harder than knowing what you don't want. For instance, I know I don't want a job with an 8:30am start time or a long commute. Seeing what else is out there has made me realise how good I have it now. My current company is ranked highly as a great place to work, and it's globally recognised.
Roaming the CBD for job prospects is exhausting. Meeting new companies and exploring new opportunities has dampened my enthusiasm. After these interviews, I can confidently say that none of the other companies come close to matching what I have now. There was no spark, no chemistry. I doubt I'll find another boss as nice as mine or an office located conveniently near food courts and a train station. I truly appreciate where I am.
Sure, my current job has its challenges and unresolved issues, but maybe it's worth giving it another chance. After being here for a while, perhaps a bit more patience could make it even better. Sometimes it feels like I'm stuck in a rut, but there's a comfort in knowing I have something stable to rely on. For now, I'm content in my rut because it's mine.